Be clear when you are writing your dating site profile what you are actually looking for in order to weed out the unsuitable candidates. This immediately improves the chances of the type of communication you will have with potential dates.
Be honest.
Let Interested People Know How to Take Action.
It could help a potential match if you told them what to do should they be interested in communicating with you.
Use The Subject Title Wisely.
Many sites require a profile title, which can be difficult to write.
Use Proper Communication Grammar.
Unless you are using an Adult Dating site, many women are turned off by men they don't know who, start referring to them in terms like "babe," etc. Use their profile name until they tell you their name.
Be True to Yourself.
Think about what best describes you and the kind of person you’d like to meet. You could also mention what you don’t want: like smokers, vegetarians or men who hate animals as an example
Never Be Late Whatever you do, don’t turn up late or it will get things off to a bad start. Plan your journey carefully and allow for delays. Five minutes early is the earliest you should arrive at the meeting place. Any earlier and she’ll peg you as an eager beaver – not good. No flowers or chocolates are necessary.
Be a Gentleman Even the most modern woman appreciates a gentleman. Making her feel special by treating her like a lady will score BIG points.
Prepare Plan some ideas about what you will talk about and write them down so you remember. Do not show her the list if you forget then escuse yourself!
Listen and Be Interested in Her Do not talk about yourself too much. Listen to her and ask questions... smile and flirt.
Be Honest When you first meet say she looks nice and smile. Don't overdo this but don't be too honest.! I can see you have skin problems...
Who should Pay? Offer to pay - ask her advice as many women like to be independent and pay their own way and prefer to go dutch
The Goodnight Kiss Study her body language. If it doesn’t feel right then a friendly hug or a kiss on the cheek may be more sensible on the first date. Take it steady.
If you want to meet her again If you do like her and are interested, then you must let her know. Only tell her that you will call her if you mean it and really want to see her again. If you don't want to see her again then you could thank her for a lovely evening and thats that.
How long does it take for my Date profile to be approved?
We endeavour to get your profile approved and live on the site within 24 hours, this time will be slightly longer at busy periods such as weekends and holidays.
You can edit your profile at any time by logging in with your Member ID and Password then clicking "My Account" then "Edit Profile". Please note that all edited profiles have to be re-approved.
Most profiles will be approved without a problem, however if your profile has been rejected you will receive an email explaining why. You will then need to edit it and re-submit it. Most common reasons for rejection are for putting nicknames instead of first names or only writing one line of text for your description.
If you are receiving too many messages and feel like a breather you can hide your profile. This will remove you from the search results however you will stay in members favourites if already added and messages you have sent and received will still be readable
Do I have to complete all of the sections of the profile basics to submit my profile?
No, you can save as you go with your Basic Profile, but the more complete your Basic Profile is the more likely you are to find people and have others find you.
If you don't have a photo, add one today. Statistics prove that profiles with photos are up to 15 times more likely to receive attention than profiles without. Also be sure you're checking for responses at the email address you gave us when you signed up. If you're not receiving any responses at all, you may have a "Spamguard" in place that is preventing email from reaching you. Check with your service provider.
